I’ll be the first to admit…
NO, I’m not married...... and NO I’ve never been married.
BUT…YES, I’ve been in a long term relationship and YES we were sexually active.
But not once did I ever use my “cookies, pocketbook, VA-JJ” or whatever your nick name is for your VAGINA as a means of punishment.
This is an argument that I have oh so often with my friends that are married. Some tend to think that it’s OK to put their mates out of their beds and make them sleep on the couch when they’re not pleased with them.…..when they’re in disagreement about an issue……or when they’re just plain ole MAD.
And I TOTALLY DISAGREE!
Unlike WOMEN, MEN are visual and physical creatures….and please believe that it’s just a matter of time before that MAN who’s been sleeping on that COUCH is going to get fed up and frustrated and seek comfort for his needs somewhere else.
Now, I know you holier than thou folk, or those of you who are simply blinded from the TRUTH or saying…”if a man is going to cheat…he’s going to cheat!”
NOT TRUE!
WOMEN, you can push your MAN into a compromising situation by being unreasonable and unrealistic. Now, don’t get me wrong…I’m not saying that men should get a pass and be granted free access to victory land whenever he picks and chooses.
What I am saying is….no man is going to feel like he’s less than a man….feel manipulated and isolated…feel forced and frustrated…be backed into a corner…while you withhold the very “1” thing that most men desire more than football!
Ladies…it is what it is and I’m hipping you to the TRUTH! The couch is not the ANSWER! There are other ways to get your point across! There are other ways to make your MAN feel your frustration and disappointment. Yes, the cookies are a gold mind…but withholding them and putting him on the couch isn’t the ANSWER! Remember…..I’m just hear to shed some light and help you see the TRUTH!
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Very good Dana. Some of the things we do as married people (not just wives) is wanting to punish instead of communicate. What if he put me on the couch for those new shoes I bought last week?? OAN. We can't control people, if he or she is going to cheat they are going to do it. It's not by the actions of the spouse, it's self control of the individual that is cheating!!
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